Mate, move on. It'll only keep the pair fo you in a cycle if you don't. The nearly chundering thing, i have no idea..that's a pretty extreme reaction. But honestly for the sake of both of you move on.
WTF. is the best way to describe it.
So this was from the last time i saw my best mate, (same girl from my other post). We were sitting there, and for the first time in the 8 or so months weve been "together" she started textin someone, and she wouldnt tell me who it was.
Basically, this agitated me. Cos we dont have secrets, i thought i could trust her. But i cant. I asked her if it was the new boy at her work (2 years younger than her) and she said no. I made her promise it wasnt him, because i hate him and if it was i would go off like a bomb. an A-bomb.. or so i thought.
And then, when she stopped textin and started talkin, she let slip it was this kid. See, this is where it was strange, because my initial reaction was to throw up. I mean... i nearly did, no joke. The very thought of her textin this guy made me sick to my stomach. I wasnt expectin it. (even writing about it i dont feel too good).
This is out of character, i have never been sick from anything...apart from illness and drinking. Rides, travel, spinning, none of it affects me.
So aside from feeling utterly crushed (and vowing never to let myself get that close to a girl i cant have again) im mindfucked as to why it happened.
Maybe someone can shed light on it all..?
i wasnt sure if i should put this in "body of mine" or whatever.
(For those who want to know, im giving me and her space. The past two times ive done this, shes come back to me. But ill work that out if it happens.)
Mate, move on. It'll only keep the pair fo you in a cycle if you don't. The nearly chundering thing, i have no idea..that's a pretty extreme reaction. But honestly for the sake of both of you move on.
"Conservatives are not necessarily stupid, but most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill
Doode, thought we already determined you were being played. Drop her, for Chrissake and move on. She's a playa.
As for the nearly puking, the body reacts in strange ways to stress and shock. Some faint, etc. I wouldn't worry about that too much. Good luck!
Tequesian
savmotronPeople do what they do. I mitigate their hazard to me and move on.
stuff is just stuff. your emotional health is much more important. holding raging anger in is more harmful than your faggot-assed tv that probably deserves to get its ass beat anyway.
is this the girl that's been chronically teasing you and refusing to let you near her?
i'm saying this from the perspective of thinking you two are jsut friends, if you#'re actually going out, then ignore, but i say you choose now between either becoming her lovesick puppy who will put yourself out loads just to do something needless for her, or you get some balls and (mentally; of course) tell her to fuck herself, no-one needs to spend anytime going through that for someone.
even if you have got a massive crush on her, really not worth it.
hope you don't need to go through physical illness because of her again dude!
i get physically sick whenever i feel like my trust has been betrayed.
You deserve better.
True beauty is an exchange, not an observation. - Lucid Rog
it was probably knowing i couldnt trust her any more that caused it.i get physically sick whenever i feel like my trust has been betrayed.[/b]
I dont like losing either, and i know ive lost this one. Makes me mad as hell. And im usually a nice kinda person... but man i hope she gets hurt as bad as i did. I think she deserves it.
Hope she looks back and kicks herself, cos now im through with it all.
Cheers guys.
It's kind of like she wanted you to know because she did it right infront of you. She sounds like she likes to play head games. I would move on.
Don't plan on her giving a fuck that you're through with her- she clearly isn't into you. Totally get over her and focus on yourself, trying to gain closure or revenge here is a futile pursuit.
Anytime I've suspected I've been cheated on, or that it's come close to that, I feel sick. The few times I found out I had been cheated on, I ralphed immediately. Like, barely make it to the bathroom, barf my guts out for half an hour straight til nothing comes up anymore. It's not fun.
As for the girl, anyone who can make you feel that way without doing much of anything, isn't worth it. You wouldn't get that worked up over things, if you trusted her and believed her words. Clearly your reactions say you don't and she isn't trust worthy, so keep her away for good this time.
I love all the things that we should fear, and Im not afraid of being here....
Take your records, take your freedom, take your memories I dont need 'em
Bandwagon
Yeah I've heard of jealously making lots of people feel sick.
Not sure how common it is but since jealously is a powerful emotion it can do weird things to your head, but there is definitely nothing wrong with you.
"Shit happens. Character is how you react to it."
I dont like losing either, and i know ive lost this one. Makes me mad as hell. And im usually a nice kinda person... but man i hope she gets hurt as bad as i did. I think she deserves it.
Hope she looks back and kicks herself, cos now im through with it all.[/b]
... So maybe you should stop blaming guys for the little shits youve been with... and blame yourself for being with them.[/b]
I hated to do this to you Hedgey... don't think I'm pickin' nits here but I wanted you to see your own opinion when it comes to choosing the wrong people to be interested in.
The thing is that we are all ultimately responsible for how we allow ourselves to be treated. Yeah she was a bitch, but you were willingly being her bitch.
Your mind can only hold one thought at a time. Make it a positive and constructive one.
~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.
I know how you feel dude. It's hard to move on when you know theres all thoughs feelings there even though the other person is acting like a dumb fuck, some how your mind forgets all that and you still go on thinking about them like a lovesick puppy.
It sucks, but things will sort em self out. Just wasn't sposed to be probs.
Yeah when I've found out he was cheating I wanted to spew too so I understand that spewing thing.
for a long time she was. a very long time.Don't plan on her giving a fuck that you're through with her- she clearly isn't into you.[/b]
<div class='quotemain'>I dont like losing either, and i know ive lost this one. Makes me mad as hell. And im usually a nice kinda person... but man i hope she gets hurt as bad as i did. I think she deserves it.
Hope she looks back and kicks herself, cos now im through with it all.[/b]
... So maybe you should stop blaming guys for the little shits youve been with... and blame yourself for being with them.[/b]
I hated to do this to you Hedgey... don't think I'm pickin' nits here but I wanted you to see your own opinion when it comes to choosing the wrong people to be interested in.
The thing is that we are all ultimately responsible for how we allow ourselves to be treated. Yeah she was a bitch, but you were willingly being her bitch.
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ill take my hat off to you for the effort... but it is kinda out of context. i mean, as a result of what happened, i dont think all women are lowly creatures that never really commit to a relationship. (or whatever degrading points Peaches has made about men). In fact, im quite looking forward to going out again without thinking about this girl, i can find someone that doesnt treat me like shit. I have a feeling there are girls out there better than this one. Tryin to put a positive spin on it. Not giving up on female-kind yet.
Yeah, I agree it's out of context. But the point still stands - you are responsible (just like Peaches is) for what kind of treatment you will take from another person. You've been this girl's bitch for what... two years? That's a long ass time.
I'm just glad you're seeing the light of day.![]()
Your mind can only hold one thought at a time. Make it a positive and constructive one.
~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.
its only the past few weeks that its all gone down hill, but yeh our "history" is about 2 years old. There was a big gap of 7 or 8 months in the middle where we just didnt talk though. I think she just wanted me as a friend that would put up with her, love her unconditionally with added hurt... and now shes found some new guy who is willing to go through it all, just like i did.Yeah, I agree it's out of context. But the point still stands - you are responsible (just like Peaches is) for what kind of treatment you will take from another person. You've been this girl's bitch for what... two years? That's a long ass time.
I'm just glad you're seeing the light of day.[/b]
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