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Reply With QuoteDitch him. It's not a good sign that he keeps letting you down. Someone not being ready for sex is not the same as someone constantly being unreliable.
Okay so there's this guy, i'm 16 he's 18. We used to chill in groups alot, and i started to develop a crush on him. He got my number from my friend. Neither him nor i are much "texters" so we don't text that much. During the summer, we went on a "date" to the drive-in together, but i don't even think of it as a date really, because we're friends and nothing happened (no kiss). We would also go to starbucks just to chill. A few weeks after that, we partied together and crashed on the same bed. We made out a bit but that's it. A few weeks after that, my parents were gone and i threw a party at my house, invited him, got drunk and we ended up sleeping in the same bed and making out again, but i told him to stop because i didn't want anything more to happen (he's really experienced and i didn't want it to lead to sex because im still a virgin). When i see him at school its jokes, and he's always saying how we should hang out. He's just really unreliable, he ditches alot and just doesn't call me back all the time. It gets me soo angry. But then sometimes he's SUCH a sweetheart, and i can't get enough of him. I've been thinking about him alot, just reminising through the old times and i miss him. I feel like i want him more than i've ever wanted anyone. The only problem is whenever i make plans, it feels like he's always ditching, especially recently. It hurts alot, and i don't even feel like trying anymore cause i feel rejected and it sucks. But i miss him sooo much what do i do? without seeming desperate..
oh and before we hooked up the first time apparently he was talking to my friend and was asking her how to impress a girl.. and she asked him who and apparently it sounded like me. She told him to sing me a song, and the next day he did..
but both times we hooked up we were both drunk and i had to stop it because i didnt want it to get out of control. so he might have felt rejected a little i guess..
Ditch him. It's not a good sign that he keeps letting you down. Someone not being ready for sex is not the same as someone constantly being unreliable.
Move on. You sound way more interested in him than he is in you. Bad place to be. Especially for a guy that you can't depend on.
There's plenty of fish in the sea. Find one that's worth it for you. He is not it.
Your mind can only hold one thought at a time. Make it a positive and constructive one.
~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.
unless ur going to give it up i dont think he is intrested, why dont you try to be sober at the next party.
Zerosum
I can see this a mile away.
He's not interested in you as a person which is why he keeps bailing on you and not calling you etc... However, he thinks that if he can be all sweet and charming when he feels like talking to you that you're going to have sex with him. End of story. He wants to fuck you but doesn't want to go out with you.
The broad masses of a nation are always more easily corrupted in the deeper strata of their emotional nature than consciously or voluntarily; and thus in the primitive simplicity of their minds they more readily fall victims to the big lie than the small lie, since they themselves often tell small lies in little matters but would be ashamed to resort to large-scale falsehoods. It would never come into their heads to fabricate colossal untruths, and they would not believe that others could have the impudence to distort the truth so infamously. Even though the facts which prove this to be so may be brought clearly to their minds, they will still doubt and waver and will continue to think that there may be some other explanation. For the grossly impudent lie always leaves traces behind it, even after it has been nailed down, a fact which is known to all expert liars in this world and to all who conspire together in the art of lying. These people know only too well how to use falsehood for the basest purposes... Adolf Hitler
You may be a virgin, but you sound like you'd be an incredibly easy lay. He's putting in minimal effort, and you're going to give it up to him eventually.
If you want to fuck him, then by all means continue doing what you're doing (or just fuck him now and get it over with). He'll sucker you in eventually, rate you're going.
"Hic puer est stultissimus omnium."
wow okay thanks guys ill listen to ya
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