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Reply With QuoteSo all of your sentences map out what needs to be done and bam your last sentence says that can't be done so...
Exes need to be cut clean there is no way around it. And the pain stops SOOOO much quicker. Sorry cherub.
ex boyfriend trouble I broke up with my ex a few months ago. We broke up on mutual terms because he is very busy and we couldn't see eachother that much anymore. After we broke up he started flirting with me told me he missed me etc. He then told me he loved me and I felt really happy. The next day he said he was sorry and he didn't want to lead me on. Then he proceeds to kiss me and says he still feels the same way about me. Then he again apologizes for his actions again and it made me feel so crap. He kept flirting then he suddenly just stopped talking to me. We pretty much didn't talk for 2 months. We would talk occasionally and i finally started to get over my heartbreak. Then he would come back and start flirting with me and leading me on. I like him again and I can't even help it. it's breaking my heart because I know he doesn't want a gf or anything but he keeps doing this to me and it causes me alot of pain. Please help.
Last edited by juliao; 11-29-2009 at 08:13 AM.
So all of your sentences map out what needs to be done and bam your last sentence says that can't be done so...
Exes need to be cut clean there is no way around it. And the pain stops SOOOO much quicker. Sorry cherub.
Sweet as the Punch.Syco- "The Empress is the latter leg of this triad, representing the physical body and the material world. From her comes all the pleasure of the senses and the abundance of life in all its forms. She is also the mother archetype, and through her we get a first glimpse of the power of love in the Tarot." I think this is all representative of awesomly large tits, no?
Draw the line. Be firm. He is either being wishy washy or an asshole. Either way, same result. You end up getting hurt and being sucked back in.
Bottom line is that you have to be the one that protects you from this back and forth bullshit. Tell him to knock it off and quit playing games with your emotions. He doesn't want a girlfriend so make sure he knows that you are not going to be his security blanket. He is probably coming to you in moments of weakness - which is both wishy washy and asshole-ish. Then reality hits him and he realizes that he does not want/is not able to have a girlfriend right now.
The thing is none of this is your problem really. But you are letting him make it your problem. You let yourself get sucked back in and go through the same thing all over again. Which sucks for you. You could be meeting someone really cool and dating and having fun. Instead you are allowing him to draw you back into his world - one which you are patently not welcome in. At least not the way you want.
You have to protect yourself. Be firm with him. Draw a deep line in the sand and make sure he stays on the other side of it. You are the only one that can do this for yourself. And, oddly enough, for him. He can't keep running to you when he's feeling lonely. He's made his bed, he now has to sleep in it.
And for you? Go find some greener pastures.
Your mind can only hold one thought at a time. Make it a positive and constructive one.
~ H. Jackson Brown Jr.
He did this twice with you and still you are confuse and asking for help. Come on he is simply taking you as granted and he knows you will accept him.
This time when he will come back just kick his ass and now this is his turn to be in pain.
next time he calls tell him your in the middle of getting your brains fucked out and hes to late.
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