Thread: Still don't know what to do...

Well I was in a serious relationship with a guy for almost 3 years, before we ended up breaking up. It was really hard for me at first, but i started to feel okay after awhile. I met this other guy and we began seeing each other. At first it started out just as a sexual relationship. I honestly thought that was all it would be, and I have to say i was okay with it. However, I fell in love with him. He is the one who first told me he loved me. But there are a couple of problems. He is not one to be in a committed relationship, he is sort of known to have a lot of women. Women love him and he is a tattoo artist so he sees a lot of women daily. I never intended to fall in love with him, but I did. Now my ex is back in the picture and it really seems like he has changed, and wants to work things out. Deep down, he is a good guy, good to my daughter etc. But I can't let this other guy go. I have tried, and I just can't do it. I have never felt such an intense love for a guy in my life. But on the other hand, I know I may never be able to be in a relationship with this guy. My ex is completely ready to be serious again, he would probably marry me today. There is another issue...my ex put me through a lot, he cheated on me, has been abusive in the past. He really seems like a different person now though, and I still do care about him. I've been wondering if it is possible to love two people at once? What do you do when you love someone so much, but don't know if you could ever be with them? I don't know what to do. It's been nine months since this has been going on, and I am nowhere closer to making a decision...