Thread: tired of my boyfriends girlfriend

its alot easier to prove that something is happening rather than prove something that's not happening. That's the problem with being untrusting. You are looking for evidence of something that probably not even happening, and you'll keep looking until you do find it. Maybe at some point, you just have to admit that the reason you haven't found anything is that because nothing is happening and let it go.

I'm an untrusting person myself. I wouldn't think twice about going through my partners phone. Because once upon a time in my past i did go through my partners phone and i did find something and then after that everyone else got the same treatment, whether they deserved it or not. I was very suspicious of everything, and most of the time you find nothing. And then sometimes you feel the need to keep looking just to justify that they aren't doing anything. I've had so many moments where i've thought "well, i don't think anything is happening, but i thought that once before and i was wrong, so i obviously can't trust my own level of trust, so i have to go through everything just to make sure i'm right to trust this person".

its a horrible cycle. it will drive nearly any potential partner away. innocent people don't like being treated like a guilty party. Has your current boyfriend actually done anything to deserve this? Or are you making him pay because someone else cheated on you?

if he knew you were tracking his cell phone, would he be upset? would he think you have crossed the boundary? I think you already know the answer to your question.

If you have an issue with his friendship with his ex, you need to discuss that with him. if you can't get comfortable with it, then maybe this isn't the relationship for you.

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