Thread: Why am I even thinking this.

stop paying attention to her

Tell your wife about it. Nothing keeps you more accountable than your partner knowing. Don't spend any extra time with her outside necessary work stuff. No lunches, no drinks after work.
Being married doesn't mean you stop being attracted to other people. But you've made a choice to be with your wife. Always keep that at the top of your mind. perhaps refocus your attention back to her, and perhaps this other girl will just fade away.

They always told me that when I was nervous, I should picture everyone naked.

Maybe that will work for you.

Originally Posted by Fruity

Tell your wife about it. Nothing keeps you more accountable than your partner knowing.

I agree. I've had a few crushes while being in a serious relationship, and I'd always tell my boyfriend - and he didn't even mind it. Keep open about your feelings. You're not thinking about dumping your wife, are you? If not, then there's no harm in telling her, especially if she isn't emotionally very fragile. If she is, reassure that you still love her, you just have a little infatuation. If you're happily married, then I suspect you're still in love with your wife. And that's what counts.