Thread: I keep screwing things up

i'm confused. are you actually lying about it when you say you don't want to talk about it? is it something he suspects and questions you on specifically?

honestly, if it's something in your past that you don't want to talk about, and isn't something that should affect him, you shouldn't be made to talk about it.

opening up to someone takes time. i don't think our advice can help you to open up to him, you have to feel like you trust him enough to let him in. if you think he's going to laugh at you, or tell his friends, that's not such a good sign. do you think that because of bad experiences that you've had in the past, where other people have done that? or do you think he would do that because that's the kind of guy he is? if it's the latter, you should flick him and find someone who cares about you. good luck