Thread: Long Distance?

Howdy, me again.

So I took most of the advice given to me in the He's Older thread. Things actually worked out REALLY well for a while. Me and the older guy got really close, not only physically but emotionally. We really connected and the week before I left, he came to see me after he got off work one night, we spent the night together one night, he invited me to a party one night at his place where he got REALLY jealous when his friend kept hitting on me. He also told me that night why it took him so long to make a move on me, and that I was one of his favorite people in the world. It was really nice to hear. Then the night before I left, he and I spent almost the whole night together, sober, just cuddling and talking and being with each other. Kind of soaking it up before I had to go.

Anyway, so then I left, and we continued talking as much as normal. But the other night, we both got really drunk, obviously seperately. Texted all night, he called me and we talked for a while. My friend embarassed me, but he didn't seem to upset by it. He told me he wanted to come down sometime this week. Well it turns out, he can't cause he has to work. But ever since that night, he's been distant. He keeps telling me he's super busy. But I just don't know. It doesn't feel right.

Everything was going SO well before I left, and now everything just isn't going well at all. I miss him so much and I tell him that from time to time. I also minorly freaked out when he posted a status on facebook that I thought pertained to me.. but it didn't. He didn't seem too upset about that either, but now it's just ridiculous. We maybe talk once a day for a few minutes. It's mostly me complaining but sometimes its not.

I just need to know if I'm wasting my time, or if he's really just busy and maybe misses me? I don't know. This might just all be in my head. This always happens to me though. I finally get attached and then he's gone..

Please just help me out as best you can! I'm driving myself crazy! Thank you!