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  1. 03-29-2004 02:03 AM #1
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    i'll keep this simple. about a year ago when i was really drunk, i sent a naked pic of myself to a girl. (my face was not in it). turns out the girl was the fucking devil, sent it to tons of people, saying it was me. i told everone it wasn't me. i was single at the time, depressed, and incredibly lonely. the pic getting out made things 10 times worse. my gf has asked my about it, and i hated lying to her. but i was also trying to lie to myself. it was incredibly embarrasing. so, should i tell her the truth???
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  2. 03-29-2004 02:06 AM #2
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    i would say yes...

    personal bias included, b/c lying can fuck up a relationship faster than anything else upon the planet.

    if she cares about you...she'll try and be supportive. It'll also help you to stop lying to yourself about it. Believe you me, it will help.
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  3. 03-29-2004 02:10 AM #3
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    Depends how good the pics are, really

    But seriously, I'd just tell her. It'll be MUCH easier to get past it if you just get it out there in the first place.

    By the way, I'll be taking bets as to who the first fuck-off to ask Retro for naked pics is.
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  4. 03-29-2004 02:13 AM #4
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    Tell her...
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  5. 03-29-2004 04:08 AM #5
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    THere are naked pics of me around somewhere. I look forward to the day when they come out in the middle of my political career. I sometimes wonder if it was a good thing

    Maybe you should take some naked pics and send them to your new girlfriend so she doesn't feel left out

    But be honest with her. You were the victim in that situation, you have no reason to feel bad.
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  6. 03-29-2004 04:43 AM #6
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    My boyfriend has like 2 gigs of naked pics and videos of me, I'm not real concerned about it.

    If it were me, I'd be honest, and also tell her why you lied. Explain you were drunk and all that, there's really no blame on you for it-except maybe a bit of bad judgement, but it really sounds like you learned from that, so dont worry about it.
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  7. 03-29-2004 08:06 AM #7
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    After what happened to Isaku, youd be crazy not to tell her
    Like Retro said, its not like its a big deal. You were drunk so she will understand that.
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  8. 03-29-2004 09:55 AM #8
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  9. 03-29-2004 01:38 PM #9
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    Yeah, there's a clip of me and my ex fiance fucking out there somewhere, whatever's clever. It's not like it's some odd shameful thing.
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  10. 03-29-2004 01:41 PM #10
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    So shotie??


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  11. 03-29-2004 02:00 PM #11
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    Talking

    Be honest with her. Do not hide anything.

    I could understand hiding the facts if you were speaking with a friend or an aquaintence, but this is someone with whom you need to maintain a trust relationship.

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  12. 03-29-2004 02:39 PM #12
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    Dude, just give her the pic. Tell her ya that is you. There is nothing wrong with naked pics or video clips of yourself.
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    Red face

    I agree. If she likes and cares about you, the worst thing will be that you lied in the first place. But your reason for denying it and why the pic was done it in the first place will ease the impact.

    As for the girls, where did you say the pics and vids are again?
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    I would tell her if it was me
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