Thread: Whoever read my posts about my ex-gf

Those posts were a gross mistake on my part, I shouldn't have shared such intimate details. However, I had no reason to believe that you would be so base as to make her life, which is hard enough already, a living hell because of what I posted.

She's now taking it out on me, telling me she hates me b/c of it.

She should hate you, for digitally raping her, for taking my thoughts and shared feelings and turning them into something evil. I should hate you as well, but for some reason she's protecting you, not letting me know who you are.

As well she should, a felony arising from this would be infinitely stupid.

I don't know if you're still reading this, as all the juicy stuff is now gone, permanently, but if you are, I hold you in complete contempt.

If my ex is still reading this, for what I would not know, seeing as how she wants no contact with me, and "hates me". I will not beg for forgiveness, I've done what I can to mitigate any damage caused to you, although, it is partially your own fault for presenting such a false image to the world. I am standing up for myself though, I am taking responsibility for what I did, and I have taken steps to remedy whatever wrong may or may not have occurred.

If you can't accept that, so be it, the memories of your first love will be forever tainted and I am sad for that. I will still strive to remember you fondly, and eventually move on with my life.


To the community here at S-B, I'm still me, as you know me...I have tried not to be false with you here, but I fear I must begin to veil my comments in the "Let's get it on" forum, so as not to cause any further damage to the fragile thing that is memory. I do not want to be remembered by her as a horrible person, who caused her only pain and anguish, I would prefer that she could remember the good times we had, and not ascribe everything to failings she found within me.

I am who I am, and I will try to remain faithful to myself. I will kick my habit of lying, and I will not allow myself to repeat the mistakes of my former relationship.

To my ex, again. I am sorry that I had to make all those mistakes with you, someone who I truly and deeply loved, and still do feel love for. I do not want to hurt you anymore, so that you may remember me as fondly as I will remember you.


That is all I have to say now...perhaps this topic might be moved, who knows...admins/mods I leave that to your capable hands. (PRR perhaps? I dunno)

So let me guess this straight. You expressed how you felt, she didn't like it, and now she is making you pay for it?

I appriciate how you feel because I have been down this road. The reality is though man, sometimes the truth hurts. This in reality is a fantasy realm. I don't know you, I don't know her, I know a little bit about her from the things you have said but beyond that I don't know her and probably never will. That is why these forums are so great to getting out what is really inside of you.

You feel bad now? You should feel pissed cause let me tell you when I finally "figured it all out" I was furious. Furious with myself for letting someone manipulate me like that and to the person for actually doing it.

You know what man, I can't remember clearly who broke up with who but if what my memory tells me is true she broke it off with you. You know what you owe her? Nothing. Zero. She ended it. I'll tell you a secret. People who doing this shit she is doing to you right now do it because one it is a thrill to be able to affect someone right now. And 2 because if you she can make you feel like absolute shit she knows you still feel something for her and that gives her a boost to the old ego.

I'll tell you what you should do, I have done this and it made me feel better. Write her a lettler. Let her know what is really inside of you. It doesn't have to be an angry letter, but it can be. At the end of the letter tell her that you are going to forget about her except for the mistakes that you were made and wish her well. Then send it to her. Get out, whatever is inside of you and then don't let it back in.

This letting her make your life miserable because you made a mistake is a bunch of crap, especially since the mistake sprang from the fact that she broke up with you.